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100 1 _aDoucleff, Michaeleen,
_eauthor.
245 1 0 _aHunt, gather, parent :
_bwhat ancient cultures can teach us about the lost art of raising happy, helpful little humans /
_cMichaeleen Doucleff, PhD ; illustrations by Ella Trujillo.
246 3 0 _aWhat ancient cultures can teach us about the lost art of raising happy, helpful little humans
250 _aFirst Avid Reader Press hardcover edition.
264 1 _aNew York :
_bAvid Reader Press,
_c2021.
300 _aviii, 341 pages :
_billustrations ;
_c25 cm
336 _atext
_btxt
_2rdacontent
337 _aunmediated
_bn
_2rdamedia
338 _avolume
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386 _mOccupation/field of activity group:
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_aJournalists
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386 _mNational/regional group:
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_aCalifornians
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386 _mGender group:
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_aWomen
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504 _aIncludes bibliographical references (pages 313-328) and index.
505 0 0 _gSection 1
_tWeird, wild West.
_tThe WEIRDest parents in the world ;
_tWhy do we parent the way we do --
_gSection 2
_tMaya method.
_tThe most helpful kids in the world ;
_tHow to teach kids to do chores, voluntarily ;
_tHow to raise flexible, cooperative kids ;
_gTEAM 1:
_tIntroduction to TEAM parenting: a better way to be together ;
_tMaster motivators: what's better than praise? --
_gSection 3
_tInuit emotional intelligence.
_tNever in anger ;
_tHow to teach children to control their anger ;
_tHow to stop being angry at your child ;
_gTEAM 2:
_tEncourage, never force ;
_tIntroduction to parenting tools:
_gI:
_tTools for tantrums;
_gII:
_tTools for everyday misbehavior ;
_tTools for sculpting behavior: stories ;
_tTools for sculpting behavior: dramas --
_gSection 4
_tHadzabe health.
_tHow did our ancient ancestors parent? ;
_tThe most confident kids in the world ;
_gTEAM 3:
_tAncient antidote for anxiety and stress ;
_tAncient antidote for depression --
_gSection 5
_tWestern parenting 2.0 ;
_gTEAM 4:
_tA new paradigm for Western parents ;
_tSleep --
_tEpilogue --
_gPractical sections.
_tTrain helpfulness ;
_tTrain cooperation ;
_tLearn to motivate children ;
_tLearn to have less anger toward children ;
_tDiscipline without words ;
_tDiscipline with stories ;
_tDiscipline through dramas ;
_tBoost confidence and self-reliance ;
_tBuild emotional support for the family (and give yourself a break).
520 _aThe oldest cultures in the world have mastered the art of raising happy, well-adjusted children. What can we learn from them? When Dr. Michaeleen Doucleff becomes a mother, she examines the studies behind modern parenting guidance and finds the evidence frustratingly limited and the conclusions often ineffective. Curious to learn about more effective parenting approaches, she visits a Maya village in the Yucatán Peninsula. There she encounters moms and dads who parent in a totally different way than we do - and raise extraordinarily kind, generous, and helpful children without yelling, nagging, or issuing timeouts. What else, Doucleff wonders, are Western parents missing out on? In Hunt, Gather, Parent, Doucleff sets out with her three-year-old daughter in tow to learn and practice parenting strategies from families in three of the world's most venerable communities: Maya families in Mexico, Inuit families above the Arctic Circle, and Hadzabe families in Tanzania. She sees that these cultures don't have the same problems that Western parents do. Most strikingly, parents build a relationship with young children that is vastly different from the one many Western parents develop - it's based on cooperation instead of control, trust instead of fear, and personalized needs instead of standardized development milestones. Maya parents are masters at raising cooperative children. Without resorting to bribes, threats, or chore charts, Maya parents rear loyal helpers by including kids in household tasks from the time they can walk. Inuit parents have developed a remarkably effective approach for teaching children emotional intelligence, When kids cry, hit, or act out, Inuit parents respond with a calm, gentle demeanor that teaches children how to settle themselves down and think before acting. Hadzabe parents are world experts on raising confident, self-driven kids with a simple tool that protects children from stress and anxiety, so common now among American kids. Not only does Doucleff live with families and observe their techniques firsthand, she also applies them with her own daughter, with striking results. She learns to discipline without yelling. She talks to psychologists, neuroscientists, anthropologists, and sociologists and explains how these strategies can impact children's mental health and development. Filled with practical takeaways that parents can implement immediately, Hunt Gather, Parent helps us rethink the ways we relate to our children, and reveals a universal parenting paradigm adapted for American families. --
_cFrom dust jacket.
650 0 _aParenting.
650 0 _aParenting
_vCross-cultural studies.
650 0 _aChild rearing
_vCross-cultural studies.
650 0 _aFamilies
_vCross-cultural studies.
650 2 _aParenting
650 6 _aRôle parental.
650 6 _aRôle parental
_vÉtudes transculturelles.
650 6 _aFamilles
_vÉtudes transculturelles.
650 7 _aFamilies
_2fast
650 7 _aChild rearing
_2fast
650 7 _aParenting
_2fast
650 7 _aParenting.
_2sears
650 7 _aParent-child relationship
_vCase studies.
_2sears
650 7 _aParenting
_vCross-cultural studies.
_2sears
650 7 _aChild rearing
_vCross-cultural studies.
_2sears
650 7 _aChild development
_vCross-cultural studies.
_2sears
655 7 _aSelf-help publications
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655 7 _aCross-cultural studies
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655 7 _aSelf-help publications.
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655 7 _aLivres de croissance personnelle.
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655 7 _aCase studies.
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_0https://id.loc.gov/authorities/genreForms/gf2017026140
700 1 _aTrujillo, Ella,
_eillustrator.
758 _ihas work:
_aHunt, gather, parent (Text)
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776 0 8 _iOnline version:
_aDoucleff, Michaeleen.
_tHunt, gather, parent
_z9781982149697
_w(OCoLC)1242091498
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